✅ DO's

• Let them take the lead. While it’s important to show interest, ENFPs enjoy taking the initiative to get to know you. Allow them to explore the connection at their own pace.
• Be a little mysterious. They find a quiet, confident aura intriguing. Keep some aspects of yourself a bit mysterious to capture their curiosity.
• Show empathy, virtue, and a compassionate heart. ENFPs value emotional depth and will appreciate seeing your sincere, caring nature.
• Compliment their ideas, values, and compassion. Recognize and affirm their creativity and the principles that drive them.
• Surprise them with spontaneity. ENFPs love adventure, so show that you can bring some unexpected excitement into their life.
• Demonstrate conviction and competence. They need to feel secure, so showing confidence in your abilities will help them feel comfortable with you.
• Join them on their adventures. Be open to the spontaneous and wild experiences they may want to share. Their ideal partner is someone willing to take risks and embrace the unknown.
• Ask questions and give them space to talk. ENFPs love to express themselves, so asking insightful questions and letting them speak will make them feel valued.
• Learn appropriate physical touch. Create sparks by demonstrating the right kind of physical connection at the right moments.
• Express your deeper feelings. Share your vulnerabilities and dreams in face-to-face conversations; ENFPs connect deeply when they feel your emotional authenticity.
• Appreciate them for who they are. Recognize and value their individuality and the unique energy they bring to the table.
• Show kindness and loyalty. Be supportive and loyal even in uncomfortable situations; ENFPs highly value authenticity and dependability.

🚫 DON'Ts

• Don’t suffocate them. ENFPs value their independence, so avoid being around them too much unless they express a desire for your presence.
• Don’t text too frequently or come on too strong. Give them space to miss you and let the relationship evolve naturally.
• Don’t bring up serious commitments too early. Talking about marriage, weddings, or major life commitments too soon will likely scare them off.
• Don’t push them to conform to traditions. ENFPs often reject the conventional; avoid pressuring them to adhere to social expectations or norms.
• Don’t talk badly about others or bully people. They value compassion and kindness, so negative talk or judgmental behavior will not resonate with them.
• Don’t insult their values. ENFPs are deeply committed to their personal values, and any attack on those principles will create distance.