✅ DO's

• Compliment their appearance and style. ESFPs are highly attuned to their senses and appreciate being noticed for their looks and overall style. Complimenting them on their appearance can make a big impact.
• Dress well and pay attention to your appearance. As someone who values aesthetics, dressing well and keeping an eye on the details will impress them.
• Pay attention to your smell. ESFPs care about sensory experiences, so using perfume or cologne will add to your attraction factor.
• Pay attention to the sound and intonation of your voice. An attractive voice and the way you speak will capture their attention, so consider how you present yourself verbally.
• Laugh along to their jokes and make them feel funny. ESFPs love humor and will enjoy it even more if you show that you appreciate their wit and playfulness.
• Allow them to take you on an adventure. They love experiencing the world in a fun, spontaneous way, so let them take the lead in planning adventurous outings.
• Enjoy the moment and have a sense of humor. ESFPs live in the present, so keeping things relaxed, lighthearted, and fun is key. Don’t take life too seriously and embrace their spontaneous nature.
• Show empathy and compassion. They value genuine, heartfelt interactions, so be kind and understanding towards them.
• Be truthful and authentic. ESFPs crave authenticity. Show up as your true self, and they’ll deeply appreciate it.
• Be open and authentic. They prefer a genuine connection and want to feel fully accepted for who they are. Don’t try to hide your true self.
• Show loyalty by being consistent and supportive. ESFPs value reliability, so be there for them when it counts, and they will appreciate your dedication.
• Demonstrate intelligence and willingness to teach. Share your expertise or passion for a subject, and they’ll enjoy learning from you while appreciating your intellect.
• Be playful and enjoy having fun. They want someone who is playful and willing to have a good time, whether it’s through light-hearted activities or having a laugh.
• Pursue them with clear interest and flirting. ESFPs enjoy playful flirting, and they like to know you’re interested in them. Pursue them with a direct and fun approach.
• Have a good sense of humor. Enjoy witty jokes and playful humor, as ESFPs appreciate this dynamic energy in relationships.
• Groom yourself well and pay attention to personal style. Since they are sensory-oriented, paying attention to how you present yourself will make a lasting impression.
• Be emotionally open and transparent. ESFPs appreciate honesty and emotional transparency. Share your feelings openly and avoid being too closed off.
• Show respect for their personality without trying to change them. ESFPs value acceptance, so avoid trying to mold them into someone else or changing their natural tendencies.

❌ DON'Ts