✅ DO's
- Be direct and honest about your feelings. They appreciate clear communication and dislike ambiguity.
- Engage in intellectual conversations. They enjoy discussing deep topics and value critical thinking.
- Demonstrate competence and independence. They admire people who are self-sufficient and capable.
- Respect their need for personal space and alone time. Even if they like you, they require solitude to recharge.
- Show genuine interest in their thoughts and ideas. Ask about their theories and perspectives—they love sharing insights.
- Help them have fun and explore. Encouraging them to step out of their comfort zone will make them appreciate you.
- Be authentic and true to yourself. They value integrity and can see through pretense.
- Offer acts of service and practical support. They appreciate tangible ways of showing care over grand romantic gestures.
- Maintain a sense of humor. A sharp wit and appreciation for sarcasm go a long way.
- Show loyalty and commitment. They take relationships seriously and value trustworthiness.
- Be open-minded and willing to learn. They respect curiosity and a growth-oriented mindset.
🚫 DON'Ts
- Don’t use subtle hints or expect them to read between the lines. They prefer straightforward communication.
- Don’t push them to socialize too much. Even if they appear outgoing, they are still introverts at heart.
- Don’t pressure them to talk about their feelings early. They need time to process emotions and will open up when ready.
- Don’t be passive-aggressive or manipulative. They value directness and logic over emotional games.
- Don’t be late on dates. They appreciate reliability and dependability.
- Don’t be overly emotional or dramatic. They prefer calm, logical discussions over emotional outbursts.
- Don’t be clingy or demand constant attention. They need independence and dislike feeling smothered.